From self-will to God’s will


I sat in the prayer room on the National Day of Prayer read many prayer requests and prayed. I noticed one common thread. The requests were all centered on personal, self-will—what ‘I’ want, what ‘I’ need for God to do. The emphasis was on ‘me’, ‘my’ and ‘mine’.  Please keep reading so that you don’t misunderstand the inspirational enlightenment of this article.  None of the requests had anything to do with God’s will, plan or purpose. There were no requests for ‘more’ of God. There were no prayer requests for spiritual growth, to know God, to have a deeper relationship with Christ, or revival.

Yes, I know the Bible says “…let your requests be made known to God” (Philippians 4:6)

Yes, Jesus said, “… ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you” (Matthew 7:8-11; Luke 11:9-13). These passages both speak to the infinite Fatherhood of God and His faithfulness to answer His children who persist in prayer.

However, within the context of Luke 11:9-13, Luke is specific about the infinite Fatherhood of God and what the Father will give if we ask, seek and knock.

11 If a son asks for bread from any father among you, will he give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent instead of a fish? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will he offer him a scorpion? 13 If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!” (Luke 11:11-13 NKJV)

Conclusively, the character of our Father is such that we can always trust Him to give what is good for us according to His sovereign plan and purpose for our lives. Sure, we should let our requests be made known to God. Ask! However, we must refocus and make sure that our will is not the object of our prayer requests based what we ‘think’ is good for us. Sometimes God uses adversity and painful times in our life to bring out the ‘good’ He has purposed for us and even our family. What we pray for and want God to change or fix for us is not always what He has purposed for us.  The will of God must always be the focus. For example, I know several of my Christian sisters who have been healed of cancer as well as some who transitioned although we prayed for their healing. When we look at this from God’s perspective, we can conclude that God’s will was done. He answered our prayer, nevertheless, not according to what we “wanted” (our will), but what He wanted (His will). Still they were healed! The ones He wanted to continue in this life for His purpose were healed.  The ones He called to their eternal home were also healed for His purpose. We do not get to dictate the purpose of God, who works all things according to the counsel of His own will (Eph. 1:11).

I admit, I do not like the challenges of life.  I am sure you don’t either. We do not like to ‘go through’ the process to get where God is taking us.  Yes, we pray asking God to change the situation—make things comfortable, take the pain away. But the more appropriate questions are: Is the situation working for my good? Does the pain have purpose? Is what I am facing for my good although it hurts? What lesson to be learned?  The psalmist said, “It is good for me that I have been afflicted, that I may learn Your statues” (Psalm 119:71). We must take the focus off us—our need and our will. We must refocus on the loving, infinite Fatherhood of God. He is the Sovereign Lord! He is our all-knowing and all-powerful God! He is our faithful Father, who loves us unconditionally. He wants us to ask, seek and knock—be persistent in prayer. However, we must trust Him to answer according to His will, plan and purpose for our lives. He is more concerned about His children than any earthly father and will give the most precious gift of all—Himself, His Holy Spirit.




©2018 Queen E. Phillips, Majestic Worldwide Ministries, Inc. All rights reserved.






It Will Be, When God Says, It Will Be!

One of my favorite authors is Chuck Swindoll. When I came across this today, I was inspired to meditate on it and share it with you:

“…I know that You can do all things, and that no thought or purpose of Yours can be restrained or thwarted.” —Job 42:2

First, let me say Job’s faith in the Sovereignty of God kept him grounded through his suffering and adversity.  He resolved that he would trust God no matter what.  And because I believe the Bible to be the infallible and inspired Word of God, Job story convinces me that God can be trusted now.

Many of us who confess our faith in God, and say we believe He can do anything panic and fall apart even over the loss of discomforts in life because we can’t live without the luxuries we’ve grown accustomed to having, or because we worship the gifts rather than the Gift-giver.  (Don’t get angry; keep reading)

The book of Job reminds us that Job was “handpicked” by God to be Satan’s target. Could it be that you are handpicked to be a testimony of God’s trustworthiness as the Sovereign God?  Awesome!  Think about this. Here’s a man, an upright man by God’s standards who lost everything, yet made a decision to believe his God.  Sure, at times he became overwhelmed, but through it all his trust in God is an example that we ought to aspire to.

The above verse (Job 42:2) records Job’s confession of faith in the sovereignty of God.

And as Chuck Swindoll says,

Remember that conclusion….When God says it will be done, it will be done. If it makes me unhappy? It makes me unhappy.  If it hurts? It hurts.  If it ruins my reputation?  It ruins my reputation. . .

You want to know who’s in charge around here?  The One who called the spaces into being, the One who put the clouds in place, the One who established the atmosphere in which we’re able to live, the One who separated the seas and the dry land, who gave you breath for your lungs and the ability to think.  The One who placed you here, now in time, for His purpose, and the One who with the snap of His divine finger will pull you from life into eternity.  Mysterious though our lives may seem, God, and God alone, is in charge.1

This day and in the days ahead, let us remember this truth; the conclusion is: God can do all things and no thought (purpose) of His can be stopped!


1Swindoll, Charles. Wisdom for the Way. Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2007.