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The Love Connection

Posted by Queen Phillips on February 13, 2010

The energy and excitement about Valentine’s Day demanded that retailers stock up early on candy, balloons, roses, greeting cards, stuffed animals, and whatever else that will help people make a love connection on February 14th.

Valentine’s Day is an anticipated holiday for many partners and couples….an occasion to set aside just to express their love and affection for each other. For some, it’s a time to be alone and enjoy each other’s company. Whether it’s at a quiet dinner in a cozy corner of a dimly lit restaurant, or among a reveling crowd at Mardi Gras, it’s a time to connect with that special person.

But for many the valentine connection is short-term because their relationship is casual or just physical; therefore, it has no depth, width, or height, and offers no real connection powerful enough to sustain each other through tough times. Unfortunately, the world’s focus of Valentine centers on romance. Hopefully, Christians have a broader perspective and a divine concept.

Please don’t misunderstand me romance is a wonderful experience governed by godly principles; however in order to maintain a healthy relationship it requires more than romance. Romance is driven by emotion. And depending on the mood, or feelings on any given day, there’s no romance. Not to mention, it’s easy to mistake love for lust especially on Valentine’s Day.

Of course, on the flip side, Valentine’s Day is just another day for some people because they don’t have anyone to celebrate it with; so they ignore it. Some people are so heartbroken by their ‘loveless’ dilemma that they are depressed on Valentine’s Day.

But here’s a different twist—a biblical perspective on making a “love connection” this Valentine’s Day…

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is (springs) from God; and he who loves [his fellowmen] is begotten (born) of God and is coming [progressively] to know and understand God [to perceive and recognize and get a better and clearer knowledge of Him]. —I John 4:7-8 (Amplified)

Gleaning from the above passage, a fundamental principle for having a love connection is a spiritual experience that originates with God, and is continuous as one’s knowledge, understanding, perception and recognition of God gets better and becomes clearer. It’s also known as growing in your faith walk and relationship with Christ, which also equates to spiritual maturity. It’s impossible to grow spiritually without being in a committed relationship with God. [Just like in the natural…relationships are either broken or developed based on commitment to the relationship].

As my personal love connection with God becomes an essential part of my life, I have a different perspective on God’s concept of love. I recognize it as being “The Law of Love”—God’s law of love that should govern every aspect of human existence. It’s not like a faucet that I can turn and off. Whether it’s Valentine Day, Presidents’ Day,or the State recognized Confederate Heroes holiday, my love is constant because now I’m allowing God’s law of love to govern my attitude and my actions. It’s a choice I made, and my actions must be consistent with my choice.

The law of love becomes the motivation for everything I do and say. It is not based on my emotion, opinion, or personal preference. It is motivated by God’s love— this is how God showed his love for us: God sent his only Son into the world so we might live through him (I John 4:9). Each day as I personally experience Christ’s love through the indwelling Spirit of God, it motivates and empowers me to express and demonstrate that love with others unconditionally. In other words, the “fruit of the Spirit” is evident.

Why is that? I made a conscience decision to OBEY God’s command.

“If you love me, keep my commandments.” (John 14:15 NLT)
“If you love me, show it by doing what I’ve told you.” (John 14:15 Message)
“…all who love me will do what I say.” (John 14:23NLT)

In essence, God’s law of love is consummated by my obedience to His Word whether it’s Valentine’s Day or not.

However, Valentine’s Day is an opportune time for a demonstration of the law of love, not just with your significant other, but with everyone that God allows to cross your path, even your enemies…

Make a true love connection!

©2010 Queen E. F. Phillips

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Perfect Timing

Posted by Queen Phillips on February 5, 2010

For as long as I can remember I’ve heard older saints say, “He may not come when you want Him, but He’s always on time.”

 Although this truth is revealed throughout the Bible, the avalanche of emotional occurrences in our lives causes us to sometimes question the timeliness of God’s intervention in our affairs.

 However, even facing the tumult of challenges, difficulties and trials, which often comes upon the Christian, I’m learning that women really do hold a special place in the heart of God.  He understands everything about us—our personality, how we think, our needs, our concerns, our dreams, our hurts and disappointment—He especially understands our faults and weaknesses.  Yet, He is always compassionate toward us.  His tenderness of heart is manifested in the lives of women who often struggle with emotional instability when dealing with the challenges of life.

 When I consider the passage of scripture recorded in Luke 7:11-16, this level of compassion is demonstrated to highest dimension—resurrection of a dead son. Wow!

Let’s consider how the death of this son affected the economical and emotional well being of this mother. Luke makes it clear that ‘he was the only son of his mother (v.12). In accordance with the manners and customs of that day, it was the desire of both the mother and father to have a boy rather than a girl.  Boys were desired to increase the size, wealth and importance of the family clan.  Since this was an only son, the possibility of the family increasing was hopeless. And any hopes or dreams for an inheritance died with this son. Consequently, the economical situation of this woman changed. 

 Luke also states that this woman was a widow—her husband was dead.  The father was the supreme authority in the household. When there was a son in the household, the authority which the father had was handed down to his eldest, who took over the position of leadership upon the death of the father.  But now, the one that had assumed responsibility and leadership for the household was now dead, and he was the only son.  Consequently, the weight of her inner turmoil, burdens, grief and pain were manifested on her countenance.  In modern day, this situation would merit the questions such as, what am I going to do now? How am I going make it?   Reading and believing what Jesus did for her encourages us today—Jesus will fix it for you!

How encouraging is this passage of scripture to those of us who face death everyday, whether the physical death of children, parents, loved ones, friends, or dead dreams, and visions, or hopeless situations.  We must remember that the Lord Jesus sees our broken hearts, and the same compassion that He had on this mother He has on us.  His compassions never fail (Lam. 3:21-22) because He is faithful!

In the case of death, the dead may not be raised physically, but if they belong to Him they will be raised in the last day.  And even in our grief, sorrow and brokenness, His touch will revive our spirits so that we continue in His strength in spite of emotional upheaval in our lives. His touch still resurrects dead dreams and makes them reality. 

 As we embrace this new season of hope and restoration, I ask what’s being carried out of your life because it’s dead? What are you about to bury? Don’t give up; don’t bury it yet because God’s timing is inconceivable.  Think about it! It was no coincidence that Jesus showed up in the village of Nain just at the time this dead son was being carried out. What perfect timing!

 It may seem as though you can’t take anymore disappointments, or hurts. He knows your emotional state concerning that son that seems hopelessly lost. He is concerned about your financial situation. He is aware of your needs, and He is available to comfort you like no one else can.  You sense His tenderness when you get into His presence; you feel the softness of His touch like a warmth that surrounds you but you can’t explain. When He speaks unsurpassing peace saturates your mind to point of no understanding.  Today, He is waiting to say arise to whatever is dead in your life.  And when He speaks to that dead thing in your life, it has to resurrect because He is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25).  It will be in perfect timing so that God will be glorified, and His name will be exalted in the earth.

As you face your challenging experiences, you too will learn that He may not come when you think He should, but for certain, He will be right on time because His timing is perfect!

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